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A Mother and Her Beautiful Son

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6 of 7 copies available
A moving and "inspiring" memoir from the mother of a child with Treacher Collins syndrome, with a foreword by R.J. Palacio, author of Wonder (Publishers Weekly, starred review).
For Magda Newman, normal was a goal—she wanted her son Nathaniel to be able to play on the playground, swim at the beach, enjoy the moments of childhood that are often taken for granted. But Nathaniel's severe Treacher Collins syndrome—a craniofacial condition—meant that other concerns came first. Could he eat without the aid of a gastrointestinal tube? Could he hear? Would he ever be able to breathe effortlessly?
 
In this moving memoir, Newman, with the help of her son, tells the story of raising Nathaniel, from the shock she and her husband faced when he was born, to the inspiration of Nathaniel's own strength and quirky humor. All this while also facing both non-Hodgkins and Hodgkins lymphoma diagnoses of her own. This uplifting story of a family tackling complex and terrifying circumstances with love and resilience is a true testament to Magda and her family, and to families everywhere who quietly but courageously persist.
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    • Publisher's Weekly

      Starred review from November 11, 2019
      In this touching debut, Newman relays the story of her teenage son, Nathaniel, who was born with Treachers Collins syndrome—a craniofacial condition characterized by undeveloped cheekbones and ears and severe respiratory problems. After an uneventful pregnancy, Newman and her husband, Russell, were excited to meet their new baby, but when he was delivered, the room went silent and Newman saw “every single person’s face change to the same mask of pure shock.” From that moment, normal took on a new meaning: Would Nathaniel be able to eat without the aid of a gastrointestinal tube? Would he be able to hear without ears? Treachers Collins Syndrome meant constant medical care and multiple surgeries to allow Nathaniel to breathe, as well as a major surgery to expand his face that required him to wear a “halo” with 16 screws mounted to his head. Nathaniel endured 67 surgeries before age 15; during this time, Newman battled two different types of lymphoma. Newman writes tenderly about these often heartbreaking events as her family, medical professionals, and friends all worked to support Nathaniel on his road to “normal.” Readers looking for an inspiring story about the power of the human spirit will find one here.

    • Publisher's Weekly

      November 18, 2019
      In alternating narratives, mother and son team Magdelena and Nathaniel, who is 16, tell the story of Nathaniel’s birth and young life with Treacher Collins syndrome. Magdelena describes the ways their lives have changed as awareness of Treacher Collins grew following the publication of R.J. Palacio’s Wonder; Nathaniel also notes that, while he’s glad for the growing attention and representation of Treacher Collins, his experiences are entirely his own. Educational and enlightening information about Nathaniel’s craniofacial differences (“My nose didn’t connect to my airway”), a planned year and a half of surgeries to give Nathaniel more autonomy, and milestones, such as coming home from the hospital more than a month after his birth, add structure to the narrative. But it’s the honest—sometimes joyful, sometimes painful, and occasionally unflattering—memories that prove most compelling. As Nathaniel and Magdelena share their family’s story, illustrating that “normal” is all about perspective, they demonstrate the ways in which the Newmans are imperfect individuals for whom Treacher Collins is one aspect of identity. Line drawings by Swaab (the Secrets to Ruling School series) depict significant passages, such as Nathaniel’s G-tube becoming dislodged, in accessible cartoons that add levity to the narrative. Also available: Normal: A Mother and Her Beautiful Son, for adults. Ages 10–up.

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